One of the parenting
concerns and responsibility is to teach kids discipline. Is home appear a cluttered place
or like a war zone when the children are out of control? With a little planning
and a discipline structure, parents can work together as a team to bring peace
to the home. Healthy or effective discipline don’t mean at all limiting
your child freedom to express himself/herself and to be creative.
Children begin
often to learn about good and bad after their first 3 or 4 years. There are
usually common values between parents that are coming from their own individual
baggage from childhood. But it is very expected to have some difference or
conflict in parenting style in some areas of child’s upbringing. Therefore,
some cooperation may have to be made in order to present a coherent parenting
style.
Set up the Rules
Child misbehavior is impossible to prevent completely. Children, usually
curious and endlessly creative, are likely to do things parents and other
caregivers have not expected. As parents sharing the same concerns
of co-parenting, you must find a time to sit down
together and establish the house guidelines which could
be constantly practical for the
child. Use past incidents and experience of other successful parents to find
solutions of problem behaviors of kids. Try to take in consideration the
child age and the balancing between his zone of freedom, independence and your
limits.
Set down with your child and talk to him/her about family rules
Tell him/her about
the reason of setting a home system and the negative consequences of breaking
it on the whole family and on himself/herself. If your child
has broken a low, you should remind them of the deal you have set together and
try to give help to stop misbehaving by persuading, rewarding and motivating. But if he/she continues misbehaving, you may relate the breaking of
rules by an appropriate sanction consequence, but
no physical treatment; family specialists agree that using physical force,
threats and put-downs can interfere with a child's healthy development.
